So I know it isn't even Thanksgiving yet, and I have put on my Christmas banner and background, but I have been so excited about the holidays this year. I think it's because Andrew is understanding more of what is going on, and it is going to be a fun year!!!!!
So while I'm on here I thought I would just update on Andrew a bit. All I can say, is WOW what a difference a year can make. Andrew has come so far since last year with his talking. Before we got the tubes in his ears last Oct. he was barely saying a few words. Now he is saying sentences. We have whole conversations all the time. I feel like I'm really getting to know my son now, because he can tell me what he wants in words instead of signs. I have to say though, he is pretty funny!!!! The things that comes out of his mouth just cracks me up. Like yesterday, my husband and him were playing with something and he asked my husband to fix it. My husband's response was, honey it is broken and I can't fix it. The next thing out of Andrew's mouth is Papa fix it. Which is my dad, and if anyone knows are house, if we can't fix something we are calling my dad for help. How a two year old knows how that works already is beyond me. Nothing gets past Andrew. We have to watch everything we say and do.
Andrew has still been struggeling with certain sounds when he is talking because of the submucous cleft in him mouth, and we still go to speech therapy once a week, but aside of that, he is talking non stop. Of course along with the power of speaking comes the power of being bossy. Andrew thinks because he can tell us stuff now, that we have to do what he says. He is learning that the world doesn't revolve around him, but he certainly has a big head about himself. Infact, when we are shopping he wants everyones attention around him. I get on average going to the grocery store at least 8-12 comments from people on how cute he is. I think that has gone to his head a bit because if people are not noticing him he starts getting very loud with either his screaming, fake farting sounds, or him just yelling hi! Shopping hasn't become a very exciting experience these days. I'm trying to teach him that everyone is not his friend, but he is far from getting it.
Andrew is still a little boy filled with excitment and joy. He is rarely in a bad mood. Infact, that is the question I get asked most of the time. Is he always happy like this? I of course have to tell them yes. Andrew is also very smart. His understanding of things blows me away. He has down most concepts that most 3 year olds don't get. Infact, yesterday at speech the therapist had a book she was looking at with Andrew and at the back of it, it had lots of opposites, like up/down, push/pull, in front/behind, curly hair/straight hair, and on and on. Anyways the therapist kept asking him to point to the picture of the word that she was saying, and he got every single one of them right. Me and her were in amazement. Then he also pointed out all the shapes, which I didn't even know he knew. Then she said I'll stump him, and there were two arrows pointing left and right. She asked him to point to the right arrow and he got it right. Then she asked him to point to the left and correct again. We thought that has to be a fluke, so then she asked Andrew to show her, his right hand. He then again got it right. We both thought that there was still now way that a two year old gets that. Who knows, maybe he does. I just can't wait to see what he is going to do one day.
All I do know is that I'm very thankful for my little boy. God has been so good to us, to allow us to raise him. I thank God everyday for him, and that we were able to get him from the struggeling place that he was in. One thing that amazes me is that Andrew is already starting to understand that he was adopted. He says all the time that mommy and daddy got on a plane and went to Kyrgyzstan to get me. Of course his words are not perfect when saying that but I know what he is saying. It amazes me that he even puts any of that together. We keep telling him, and I guess it is working. What a wonderful little boy he is.